50 Things I Wish My Boyfriend Knew.

Friday, March 9, 2012

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In a relationship, some things are left unspoken. For the reason being that, they want their partner to be the person that they are, and most often that not, they want to spare their partner’s feelings. Listen guys, here are 50 things your girlfriend wants to tell you all along:

1. I don’t need you to try and be superman for me, I just need you to be there.

2. Any battles we have, I want to face them together.

3. I’m self-conscious; whenever you’re with another girl, I worry they’re more fun to be around. Whenever we see a pretty girl, I worry you think they’re more pretty than me.

4. I hate how many close female friends you have. When you’re talking to them, I wish you pulled me closer so I could feel more secure. It’s hard to compete with that many friends of yours. It’s frustrating you have more close girl friends than guy friends.

5. When I’m mad at you, I want you to kiss away the anger.

6. When I ignore you, I want you to give me attention.

7. When I tell you I won’t text you so you can spend time with friends, I really just want you to argue with me and tell me i’m the one you want to talk to.

8. When you’re out and you hardly text me or don’t pay attention to what you’re texting, I feel irrelevant. I want you to have a good time but don’t tell me you’ll talk to me if you won’t.

9. When you do something unexpected, like send me an email, it makes my day.

10. I like it when you’re bold and make plans for us.

11. Consult your guy friends when we have problems so they can give you man advice, consult your girl friends when you’re stuck on things like presents- that’s when thinking like a girl helps (not when we have problems because girls make it more emotional and dramatic then it has to be).

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12. Self-pity is not cute and makes me feel guilty.

13. Calling me cute makes me feel like your puppy.

14. I like love having sex with you. 

15. I like being adventurous with you, trying new things and not caring about what people think.

16. I love your body- stop being so conscious about it or you’ll make me more conscious of mine.

17. I love and respect your dedication to gym, but there’s only so much gym talk we can have. Talk about gym with your guy friends more, not on all of our dates.

18. I like wearing your clothes because they make me feel wrapped up in you.

19. I’ll always wear the jewellery you buy me because looking at it makes me smile.

20. Don’t say things just to please me, it only makes me happy if you mean them.

21. I care about what your friends/family think about me.

22. sometime i would rather you try cheering me up if you know somethings wrong, rather than you asking me if everything is ok.

23. I never forget anything. Everything we’ve talked about I remember.

24. I love holding your hand, I don’t care who’s around.

25. Talk to me about us, not just your friends.

26. It means the world to me when you smile.

27. I love appreciating you and complimenting you, I’m not trying to be a crazy girlfriend.

28. I see our future together because being with you makes me happy and I never want it to end, I don’t do it because I’m a little girl who loves fairy tales.

29. You being unhappy in this relationship breaks my heart more than if you break up with me.

30. I like looking at you while you drive because I notice more things about you that I think are adorable.

31. I don’t like it when you make decisions for me.

32. When i’m stressed out or worried, I’d like your advice. You saying “you’ll be fine” stresses me out more.

33. Our relationship is not the same as it was in the first 2 months we were together and that’s ok.  That doesn’t mean I don’t miss it sometimes.

34. Sometimes i want to make an extra effort with my hair or make up or outfit or wear a pair of heels even though I hate them. This is to make you feel more proud of me being your girlfriend and so you may think “wow, I’m lucky”… it means i’d love for you to notice, and when you do (which is often), I get filled with so much joy.

35. I like taking photos of you/us so that when we’re not together, I can look at them and smile.

36. I like having memories to look back on.

37. When I say less, most of the time it’s because I want you to say more.

38. I like it when you put your arm around me. On the train, in the cinema, on the sofa.. wherever. 

39. I’d rather you act consistent in the way you treat me/act with me so that my emotions can be consistent too. This would cause less fights.

40. Sometimes I’m being sarcastic or just saying things to make you happy, but when you don’t realise it, I feel crappy. For example, when I said you should go to your friends house before her match to pick her up, I never really wanted you to. I’m sorry I can be like this, it all stems from being bitter that I can’t be there. It’s not something I like doing, sometimes I just can’t help being a bit of a bitch.

41. I hate me nagging just as much as you do.

42. I like hearing that you miss me.

43. I prefer you being original to doing what I want all of the time.

44. The way you say I love you matters.

45. I don’t need you to say you love me all the time.

46. When i compliment you or say I love you out of the blue or express some kind of happiness and you respond with “awww ok” or “lol stop being silly!”, you make me feel pathetic and stupid and I instantly regret it.

47. Ask to see me because you want to see me, not just because you know i love seeing you.

48. When you’re upset me, what I’m really annoyed at is how much I love you because it makes me not want to be upset/angry and forget anything ever happened.

49. I really do love you.

50. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you because you’re the best thing that ever happened to me.

by Kristine N.










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